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Apr. 4th, 2007

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From:fred_girl
Date:April 5th, 2007 03:51 pm (UTC)

Re: Flash backs can be awful...

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I've been trying to figure out what specifically happened before but I can't think of anything that it could be, thanks for the good thoughts though . .
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From:igosm
Date:April 5th, 2007 04:54 pm (UTC)

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It might take a while. Sometimes a flash back is just about remembering so you can take steps to process it (from an adult perspective) It's such an incredible thing to go through. I'm in a group and we use the Wounded Heart book. It's pretty Christian which is bristling for me, But there is wisdom there. I find the book is good at pointing out what the effects might be and not so good in suggesting positive actions to take, outside of forgiveness and prayer, which seems a little lacking to me. Have you tried a group, have you read any books which seem helpful? I'm struggling with Compulsive Overeating at the same time. I'm noticing that eating disorders and Childhood abuse go hand in glove.
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From:fred_girl
Date:April 5th, 2007 05:15 pm (UTC)

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When I first started dating and being sexually involved, I dealt with a lot of flashbacks and pretty much sorted out what I could and could not do. But it's been years since then which is what's confusing me.
I've actually been meaning to look into a group. How did you find yours?
And yes, over and under eating seem highly intertwined with childhood abuse. Have you ever been to an OA meeting? It's the same format as an AA meeting, but it's specifically for overeaters. My aunt participates and it's been amazing for her.
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From:igosm
Date:April 5th, 2007 06:04 pm (UTC)

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I go to OA meetings. Actually I think it would be good if there was a subset of OA for OA - Childhood sexual abuse.. It might be the same people, it's so prevelent...
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From:fred_girl
Date:April 5th, 2007 09:40 pm (UTC)

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I wish there was a victims of sexual abuse anonymous period! Anyway, can you suggest a good way to find a support group?
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